Beginning as a letter to a dear friend, and quickly passed on from dad to dad, Ailsa Wild’s warm and encouraging words have expanded into this book. Becoming a father is a time of love and learning, when sexism and gender roles can be frustratingly reinforced. But dads belong right in the middle of their families, experiencing all the joy and messiness, sharing the load and embracing play and connection. It’s going to be wonderful. You’re going to be wonderful.